It’s not a problem until it’s a problem

This is terrible attitude to have.

Do you take care of your health when you’re unwell or before?

Do you take care of your relationships when they break down or before?  

It’s hard to notice things before they appear (you can’t) but it can help to work towards being prepared.  You’ll never be fully prepared. That’s life. Things happen. Things out of your control.

The cure?

Focus on what you can control.